9 Conversation Topics Guaranteed To Sexually Attract Her

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9 Conversation Topics Guaranteed To Sexually Attract Her

In this guide, I will reveal 9 topics that almost “magically” make all conversations with women attractive, fun, and long-lasting. These topics sexually attract women by default; plus you will never again run out of things to say.

I will provide ways to naturally introduce each topic. Follow this guide whenever you meet a woman at a bar, Starbucks, or on a date. These topics are attraction triggers, thus they make it easier to seduce women. They activate parts of the female brain that handles attraction & sexual desire (septal area, amygdale, hypothalamus, and many neurotransmitters). The hallmark of what I teach guys is attraction is not a choice.

I will introduce the topics, elaborate, explain how to introduce them naturally, and then provide you with an exercise to speed up your learning curve.

Use these conversational topics to separate you from other guys. These topics subconsciously inveigle women to want you. Most all men ask the same boring questions: where are you from, what do you do, do you have any siblings. I teach my students that it is ok to ask boring questions, but only after you introduce 2-3 attraction triggers (conversational topics). Not only must you avoid asking those boring questions too early, but avoid answering them as well. Women will ask boring questions as a defense mechanism. If you let her suck you into a boring conversation, she will lose attraction and blame you for it.

Let’s get started…

1) Early struggles to get ahead. Rags to riches or stories of redemption are loved by everyone. Telling a story like this will elevate your level of masculinity and strength in her eyes. Any story in which you inured pain while facing a daunting obstacle, only to arrive a better man will do the trick. It can be about the time you were broke and lived on streets, only to later start your own business; the first time you stood up on a surf board, or when you were a child and your parents did not have money for the electric bills. Stories like this will show her you are prepared to fight any challenge. She will feel protected by you.

2.) Your interests & passions in life. All people desire passion. Women especially seek out passion. If you do not have anything in your life you are passionate about, then you must figure out your goal in life and start pursuing it. Have you ever met a person that was passionate about something in their life? Were you drawn to them? Passion triggers massive attraction in women. Merely using the word will make her feel attraction for you. Rather your passion is traveling, arts, or pursuing your degree in Molecular Biology (like me), open up and show her.

3.) Lessons you have learned in life. Recounting an anecdote paints you as a leader of men. It shows you are a teacher, therefore others are students. This is sexy to women. I like to tell the story of the time I sold insurance. My mentor was always hard on me – borderline invective. After 7 days of no sales, I started coming in later and going home earlier; where as he would work a solid 12 hours everyday. I was heading home on the 8th day, feeling very defeated. Angrily he called me back. He told me I was being a pussy and I needed to find my source of motivation in life. He told me 1 of 2 things motivate every person. It is love, or fear. Instantly I knew my motivation – fear. I was horrified of living a life like my childhood: stressed out, unable to provide food every night, missing house payments, huge debt. The next day I worked from 7am to 11:30pm. Only made one lousy sale. The following day I enthusiastically did the same and my last lead led to a $3500 sale.

4.) Travel. Everyone loves to talk about traveling, even if they lack the means to travel. Do not list places you’ve been, rather talk about interesting or exotic places you traveled to. Recount how you mingled with the locals and slept at a local’s house one night. Let her talk the most. Listen intently – she will reveal a lot about herself.

5.) Glorified gossip. Tell the stories of your friends. The crazier the better. It doesn’t have to be a recent event, although tell her it is to add excitement. Never talk down about anyone, even the villain of the story – this frames you as a non-loyal friend. Do you have a friend who caught his brother sleeping with his girlfriend? Maybe a friend slept with his high school teacher after graduation? You get the point.

6.) Unusual experiences. Have you ever met a famous person? Anything bazaar or un-ordinary ever happened to you or a friend? As you recount this story, mix in facts with emotional strings. Do not just recount where, when, and why. Reminisce about feelings you had. Go into vivid detail about thoughts and emotions you felt.

7.) Current pop culture. This is one of my lesser favorites to talk about, but women love to discuss it so by default I “love” to discuss it. Use this sparingly. Do not sound like the guy that watches TMZ daily. When you discuss this story, act as if you are only somewhat familiar. Pretend you only know the major details – after all, you are a busy man with a lot going on. You have no time to watch TV all day. It is better to let her explain this stuff to you. You should merely bring it up and get her opinion on it. Pay attention – she will reveal her interest.

8.) Childhood years. Our childhoods have had a huge impact on who we are today. Revealing SMALL parts of your childhood lets her feel a connection to you. You will not just be the attractive, slick guy; but a real person who is capable of giving her the things she desires. Recounting your childhood encourages her to do the same. It will lead to a rush of emotions. Talk about the time you found a pack of baby kittens under your house and discovered you are severely allergic to them, or the time you got busted with your dad’s playboy. Ask open questions thus encouraging her to recount her childhood – she will immediately feel a connection.

9.) Future ambitions. I should have listed this as number one. Nothing and I mean NOTHNG will get a female’s panties wet like you passionately telling her what your future ambition is. Make sure you talk about this with every woman of interest – your success with women will increase 10 fold. Reveal your ambitions, and then ask an open question to get her to reveal her ambitions. Once you both do this, it is as if you share a bond. You are no longer just “a guy,” but rather a high-ranking potential lover.

You have the knowledge to make any conversation sexy & long lasting. You need to be capable of naturally implement these topics. You will introduce these topics by “seeding.” Say something (or plant a seed) about what you plan to talk about.

Let’s “seed” the topic early childhood memories. Try this:

“There is something about you that reminds me about this girl I had a major crush on when I was 6. I remember one time…”

Introduce the topic of future ambitions like this:

“This has been the longest week, but I’ve still enjoyed it. I’ve been working on this project tirelessly.” She will ask “what project?” Mention the word “ambitious” as it is an effective attraction-trigger.

Pick out 3 topics and write a short story. Pick the topics that hit home. You may already know which story you will tell. Make sure it honestly happened to YOU! None-the-less, if you need to manipulate a couple of SMALL facts to make yourself sound better or to make it more interesting, do so. Never make up a story or lie, she will know!! Write then save the stories on your computer. Repeat each 4 times in the mirror for limpid stories.

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How To Change Her Bad Behavior

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How To Change Her Bad Behavior And Pass Her Shit Tests.

If you plan on dating beautiful women, then you have to get use to other men hitting on your girl and texting her often. If she is a high caliber girl, she will thrive off attention and will not easily ignore attention from other men. This is ok and you need to know how to deal with it or you will not keep her long. Know what you will allow and what you will not allow. If you are ok with her texting guys as long as she doesn’t hangout with them, then its ok. However, you may not want her texting guys all the time – to each his own. The point is to know your boundaries, make sure she knows your boundaries, and under NO circumstances are you to ever compromise your boundaries for anyone. Be the man who knows what he wants and settles for nothing less. Be the man who is willing to let her go if she continuously crosses your boundaries. This type of man is sexy to women.

I’m going to give you a technique that will improve your girlfriends behaviour. What do I mean by a girlfriend mis-behaving? This depends on the boundaries you have set. It will be different for every guy. So, how do you change your girlfriend’s bad behavior?

A couple of years ago I was dating this chic I met in one of my classes. She was the type that always had guys texting her and hitting on her, even if I was with her. She also had a hard time keeping a boyfriend for the very same reason. Most guys couldn’t handle other men texting her or hitting on her blatantly. She was a 10 and our relationship was very physical – we had sex on our first date and probably everyday until we went our separate ways – which was about 4 months. I was not about to let other guys fuck this up. The worst thing I could have did was tell her I didn’t want guys texting her all hours of the night. This is a pussy-move and it would have caused her to lose attraction for me.

One night, she wanted to come over after work. She got off at 2:00am as she was a bartender. We made plans and I told her I would leave the key under the mat. I woke up at 3:00 am and she was not there, nor did I have any text messages from her. I started to text, but decided I wanted to just see how the handled this. At 3:45 I heard someone beating on my door. I went downstairs and of course it was her – apparently she forgot about me leaving the key. She had been drinking and hanging out with co-workers. This included male and female co-workers. She was a bit drunk and acted as she did nothing wrong. However, this is behaviour I do not tolerate. A quick “I’m hanging with friends” text would have sufficed, however she lacked the decency to even do that.

Before I tell you how I handled it – take a second and decide how you would have handled it. OK now read on to see what I did.

We go upstairs and she showered and got in my bed. She initiated sex, so we fucked like rabbits for about 30 minutes. Keep in mind, I was not whining or even acting like her behaviour bothered me. We were laying in bed talking about our week, work, etc. I then said this,

“Oh btw, you were 2 hours late on coming over tonight. I’m not mad at all and as far as I’m concerned, it’s 100% over with – I have no plans on every talking about it again – even if you continue to behave like that. But in the name of honesty I want you to know that when you behave like that, it makes me like you less.”

When I said that last part, it was like a bomb went off in her head. Instead of me being mad, I jus let her know that I like her less now. Given that she liked me, it stands to reason that she would avoid acting in a way that resulted in me liking her less. She immediately started apologizing and giving an explanation. I leaned-in to her and covered her mouth. I smiled endearingly and told her it was over and we’re not talking about. I then said “I’m glad you are here,” and I kissed her passionately for a few minutes before we went to bed. The next morning, I cooked us a badass breakfast. Oh, and I never brought it up again….only passive aggressive girlie men keep bringing shit up. Women will bring up the past, men should not.

Use the above line on a woman, only if you are dating her and only use it once. In other word, save it for something big. Don’t waist it on some bullshit issue you have because you are insecure. You should only use it when she is behaving a way that nearly all men would agree is wrong and unacceptable.

-Roman El-Saadi

What Sex While Driving Can Teach Us About Opportunities in Life

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What Sex While Driving Can Teach us About Opportunities in Life.

 

The wildest place I’ve ever had sex was in a car…..while driving it home from a bar.

Earlier that day I met a female friend of a guy friend. I bumped into the both of them over lunch and decided to join. Soon, my friend left and it was the girl and I. We finished our food quickly, but stayed and talked for about 2 hours. This goes against everything I teach, but you have to have the sense to know when a real connection is being built. We swapped numbers and later that night I decided to go to a local bar with a group of friends – male and female. I sent her a text and sure enough she showed up at the bar later in the night.

The night was like any other. My rap was clean and confident, I did not drink much, and I was just in a good mood. I waisted no time to move the conversation into a sexual direction. I remember she was telling me about her personal trainer and I interrupted her with, “are you adventours in bed?” She was shocked and became a bit shy – just for a moment. She said she liked to think she was and then asked about my favorite sex positions. I knew it was on. At this point, I noticed an opportunity emerged. I could stay at the bar and talk and risk loosing tension, or I could take her home for adventurous sex – I choose the latter. This type of sexually driven dialogue lasted for about 15 minutes when I told her to go pay her tab. She did and I took her by the hand and led her outside. I just implied it was time for us to go. I rode with a friend so I told her I would drive her car to my apartment. Keep in mind, at this point she had not agreed to even leave with me. In fact, I never told her directly what we were doing. We were making out and feeling all over each other. I got in her white mustang and drove towards my apartment. The entire time I had my hand up her skirt. I still remember how wet she was, I mean I’m certain she ruined her car seat. Still driving, I took her hand and placed it between my legs. At this point, she moves in between the seats so we can get closer. I picked her up and moved her on top of me. She pulled out my dick and I was inside. She re-positioned her self to straddle me and fucked me as I drove her car to my place.

I can only imagine what a cop would of said, if pulled over. Hell, I can only imagine what I would of said if pulled over: “I’m sorry officer, I was trying to get home safely and she just took all the initiative – you wouldn’t expect me to say no to this, right? Oh, you do? What’s that officer, you want me to get out of the car and lie face first? OK, give me a second to pull my dick out from inside this young lady.”

This is not something that can really be manufactured. I think it would be hard for anyone to go out with the goal of having sex while driving. For me, all the work was done. In other words it was a fluke.  I met her through a friend so I had comfort built in. We were only 15 minutes from my place and she came to see me without any of her friends, so logistics were taken care of. We were there with all my friends so social proof was accounted for. The point is, an opportunity emerged that night. The second I noticed it, I took it.

How many times has an opportunity passed you by?  It must be human nature to not react because it seems to be a universal occurrence. Taking advantage of an opportunity is not something you were born with – it is learned. It comes from being fed up with watching as chances in life pass while doing nothing. It leaves us with a sense of failure and takes away our hope. Becoming the type of man that seizes opportunities starts with you making up your mind to change.

Right now, make up your mind to be the type of guy that fiercely takes advantage of opportunities. Make this your time, your year. Take it day by day. When you leave in the morning, look yourself in the mirror and know that the first opportunity that emerges to meet a beautiful women – you are going to walk right up and take it. What happens next, well honestly who gives a shit – this is not about women. This is about you becoming the man you want to be – hot women are just a side effect.